love note no. 11
Almost 100% of my single clients tell me that they hate online dating.
The reason they hate it mostly comes down to one thing- they don't trust the men online.
What if his pictures are old?
What if he is lying about his job?
What if he is psycho?
What if he is boring?
There are a million reasons why you can't trust men online.
And yet none are good enough reasons to give up on it.
Because you don't need to trust him to date him.
You only need to trust yourself.
Trust yourself to figure out whether he is who he says he is. Trust yourself to walk away if he isn't. You don't need to worry about trusting him if you trust yourself.
So go ahead- date him, even though you don't trust him.